Posted on 4th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Events |Fixations |Friends |Friendship |Iloilo |Life |Love |My Job |Random |Telemarketer |Thoughts |Writing
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This morning we attended a First Friday Mass at Callbox. I forgot the name of the priest but I didn’t forget his homily. I went with Amy and Monica. Not everyone—actually—nobody else knows that Amy and I had a “cool off” phase in our friendship except Jeffrey and Monica. I really don’t remember the reason why we drifted apart for almost 6 months (it started the week after we came back from Baras, Guimaras) but we just stopped hanging out together. Before that happened, we were always seen together during lunch and break time. If Amy eats lunch, I eat lunch too. If I go to sleep, Amy goes to sleep too. And often we just sit at the couch at the 3rd floor and just talk about random things. And oftentimes we laugh and share secrets and personal stuffs happening at home and in our lives.
Then came that fateful day when we just stopped talking to each other. It was as simple as that. And I told Nong Jeffrey and Monica about what’s happening. And I also learned that Amy was talking to the two of them as well. So nobody else knew what was happening except the four of us. If our co-workers noticed, they didn’t ask. They were kind enough to leave us alone. What makes me happy with that kind of situation was that even if Amy and I were “not friends” we weren’t spreading rumors or bad things about each other. We weren’t gossiping about each other. And the secrets we shared were still secrets.
I’m telling you this because it relates to the priest’s homily. His topic was about love. Love for your special someone, love for your family and the love for your friends. That for love to last, you only not have to FEEL the love or THINK the love but also importantly to BE WILLING to love. Amy and I looked at each other on this part of the homily and we just giggled. J By the way we’re friends now. We talked to each other Friday of last week. To make the story short, we just hugged each other on Saturday morning. We missed each other. And we weren’t selfish to say that. I actually shed some tears. Hehehe. But that simply means that I love my friend and I value her. We’re hanging out together now. There’s no tension between us and everything is back to normal. It’s as if nothing happened. Nong Jeffrey and Monica are happy for the both of us. Amy is such a great friend and I would hate to lose her. I hope she reads this so she’ll know how much I value her friendship and her loyalty.
Ayms! Friends forever ta ya ha
Posted on 19th July 2008 by Mary Jane in Arts |Fixations |My Bebeh
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Yep, I bought myself an ABBA cd and this really cool and cute ear cuff kind of earring like the one that Meryl Streep was wearing on that movie. After my shift yesterday, I met up with my bebeh for breakfast then we went to SM Delgado’s department store and browsed through the CDs on sale. I found this ABBA album which features a compilation of their greatest hits. My bebeh was actually supposed to upload ABBA’s hits on my iPod but too bad his computer chose this time to break down. So because Mary Jane just can’t wait to hear those phenomenal chart-toppers I promptly bought myself a CD. I went home and listened to it before going to bed (which pumped me up instead of mellowing me down..haha) I sang and danced a little to their music (yeah, a “little”). 
I also bought this cool ear-cuff from Unisilver which is a curved band of metal that is pressed onto the helix of the ear. I have to pinch it hard to make sure that it stays in place (It was kind of painful at first but I got used to it eventually). I actually wanted my ear pierced at the helix and wear a stud or clip-on earrings but Tim won’t let me. He says I will look like a punk and people are going to think that I’m a drug addict or something. It has so many negative connotations.
Oh well, I just have to content myself with a “non-pierce” earring. Anyway its not that bad-looking right? What do you think? 
By the way, the butterfly earring I’m wearing was bought by my bebeh about a couple of months ago. Goes well with the ear-cuff.
Posted on 19th July 2008 by Mary Jane in Fixations |Friends |My Job
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I don’t know if people have noticed but I’ve been talking about Monica in some of my posts. She’s a very close friend and we’ve been through some ups and downs. She’s a great friend. She’s been there for me whenever I need her and I wish she considers me a good friend too.:)
Love yah Nicay!
Here we are in the hallway of our office building:
We’re going to Spa Riviera again later today after our shift! Yehey!
I really need to pamper my body more often. Need to release the stress. I’m so excited to have that sauna, steam bath, foot spa and body massage!
Posted on 19th June 2008 by Mary Jane in The Start
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i don’t know if you people who have viewed this blog noticed that i have filled it with too many pictures, images and more pictures(hehe..)–not the usual journals or opinionated topics that you usually see in other people’s blogs.
i’m just warming up guys. namag-uhan pa bal-an..hehehe..beh noh? ^_^
so now what?
i actually have ideas cluttered in my head but i don’t know which one to start with.
still thinking…still thinking..
