My Goals

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Posted on 26th February 2009 by Mary Jane in Education |Fixations |Goals |Iloilo |Life |Personal |Telemarketer |Virtual Assistant |Writing

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Want to document my plans and goals for this year here in my blog. Will look at this by the end of the year to see if I did accomplish everything – which I plan to.

1. Be healthy and go back to being slim. I’m looking for Yoga classes here in Iloilo and and then I’m going to enroll. Start exercising everyday. Be healthy. I am getting heavier and it’s quiet alarming. I now officially have an undeniably awful-looking paunch (which Tim points out to me everyday). I want to get rid of it as soon as possible because I can’t fit into my old clothes anymore (and which is a waste because I have so many old clothes!) I want to fit into my old clothes! And every time we have our photo ops I find it really hard to hide the paunch. LOL. So I have finally started dieting. No more chocolates, cakes, ice creams, curls  and junk food for me now. Well maybe just once a week. LOL. I won’t binge anymore. I will only eat when I’m hungry. I will only eat “on time.” I don’t wanna be chubby anymore. Hehehe.

2. Learn to speak, read and write in Spanish. I’m learning how to write and speak in Spanish along with Tim. I am starting to get serious in this stuff. I’m trying to learn a phrase or two everyday. Tim’s bought a book. I’m studying online. We want to speak acceptable Spanish by the end of the year. We love and adore the Spanish language. Not only is it a romantic language, it’s also widely spoken around the world. And it’s a part of our heritage.  My goodness our family names are in fact Spanish if you’ve noticed. My Lola Mamang knows how to speak Spanish. I love listening to people speak that language. Me and Tim want to be linguists. It’s our dream.  :)

3. Enroll at CAP College. I am going back to school this year! Yes you read it right. My second ultimate dream, one of the things I want to achieve/fulfill before I die – will finally be put in motion this year. Hopefully there won’t be any hitches. I’m not listening to any discouragements from anyone. I plan to continue my studies while working at the same time. But wait, before anyone gets the wrong idea, just wanna clear up that I do love and enjoy my job! I mean who wouldn’t? Nothing beats working at home. :)   And honestly I earn more than you, if not you then the person next to you (this applies only to people living in the Philippines. LOL) And there are many out there who have degrees but still don’t have jobs, or if they do have jobs they’re not happy with it or usually it’s not related to the degree they’ve finished.  It’s just that I really want to finish college and get that hard-to-get diploma. It’s like an obsession to me. Just so everyone knows, I plan to enroll at CAP College the pioneer in Distance Education here in the Philippines. CAP College was patterned after the “open university” concept of education which is already well-established and widely accepted in more advanced countries of Europe, Australia, Canada, the United States and Asia. If anyone wants to learn more about CAP College just click here. Mamang suggested this college to me. And I know going to school at CAP College won’t interfere with my work. In fact it will actually help me with my work. I feel that it would be much much better for me if I enroll at CAP College instead of enrolling at the universities and colleges here in Iloilo. Aside from just learning my degree here at home and online, with a little person to person interaction which will only be during final examinations, I know that I will learn a lot more than those students who physically go to school and sit at classrooms and listen to other people talk.  I don’t have anything against teachers (my mother is a teacher) but for me I learn a lot better if I study by myself, not by listening to other people talk or by doing assignments and reports. I had more than one professor who just assigned reports to us for the whole semester and then just sat in the back of the classroom and listened to me and my classmates’ reports (so what happened was me and my classmates were teaching each other and all the professors did was just kinda supervise us giving a little input here and there). In fact, I think distance learning is a lot better. We get to really learn and study whether we like it or not — at our own pace. Then we will really deserve the grades we get, not because of some professor or teacher’s judgement or whim. This is MY opinion so if anyone disagrees – I don’t really care. In my point of view, everyone should earn their degrees through distance learning instead. Wanna know why I said that? Feel free to ask me. My reasons will be more understandable if you talk to me, not by just reading it here.  :)

4. Be an active member of the CFC Singles for Christ. Right now every Sunday you will find me not only with Tim but also together with my brothers and sisters in Christ. I am building a blog for them now using WordPress too. I also want to help our less privileged brothers and sisters not only here in Iloilo but also in other places. I also want to help spread God’s words and God’s love not only to young people like me but also to everyone who will listen. Being with the SFC will help me fulfill my dream of helping others. See I’m not really a selfish person. :)

That being said, I have an awful lot of things to do this year. This stuffs will keep me very busy. But it’s better to be busy than not right? I have a life, unlike other people. LOL. I am currently researching more about the things I need to enroll at CAP College then I’m planning to accomplish and gather all the requirements needed so I could finally enroll and start studying. All these I will do while I’m also working. I will send myself to school. I will be paying for my tuition fee. So I better study well and hard. Then next year I will start fulfilling my dream of having my own virtual assistance company. Nothing is impossible right? I thank the Lord for all the blessings I have received. And for all the blessings to come. Hope He will help me in my journey of fulfilling my dreams.


DTR Mottos

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Posted on 4th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Arts |Comedy |Entertainment |Fixations |Friends |Friendship |Humor |Iloilo |Iloilo Bloggers |Life |Love |Media |Movies |Music |My Job |Party |Personal |Politics |Random |Religion |Sports |Telemarketer |Thoughts |Typhoon Frank |Writing

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As always, the drone of my job is constantly boring me. So I try finding ways to amuse myself.  Usually what I do is I just browse the internet for useless topics like celebrity gossip, read horror stories, jokes and other people’s blogs.

 

But today, I found a very fascinating distraction—interpreting the DTR mottos of my co-workers, particularly the people within my department. J

 

            Here are some of their mottos:

 

i had a wish that everything would turn out well in the end.. with all i have, i did what i thought was right.. i spoke words that i thought would heal and bring the truth to light.. but i fear that all i have said and done were all wrong for it seems that everything is lost.. with hopes of having a new start, instead, i brought the end.. but i still look forward to the bright side amidst hollowness and hurt, regret and self-pity.. i can only hope and wish..

                        –Torda (Of Course-The One and Only Jeffrey!)

 

 

“Once you POP. . . . . . YOU CAN’T STOP!!!” (–,)

                        –Abert (The Manyakikoy)

 

 

“The spaces between your fingers were created so that another’s could fill them in.”

                        –Mimay (My Longtime Friend)

 

 

A-ttention, I-nterest, D-esire, C-ommitment, A-ction

                        –Mekrang (The Hard to the Core Girl)

 

 

~*~SoMeTimEs GOD cALmS tHe StOrM…. sOmEtimEs He LeTs tHe sToRm rAgE aNd CaLmS HiS ChiLD.~*~

                        –April (The Lady Lesbian???)

 

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

                        –Bernadette (The Accounts Manager)

 

Life is short.. Be Happy,.

                        –Bebang (The Strict Momma Friend)

 

 

It doesn’t matter what the other is being, doing, having, saying, wanting, demanding. It doesn’t matter what the other is thinking, expecting, planning. It only matters what you are being in relationship to that.

                        –Crystal (The TL)

 

 

In Mehiko!!!I kill a man for a Tequilla. But since your are my friend….I kill you for free!!!

                        –Dedrick (The Flawless Rocker)

 

freedom isn’t free; it comes with a trainload of responsibilities…

                        –Dianne (The Future Sister-In-Law)

 

If you’re attractive enough on the outside, people will forgive you for being irritating to the core.

                        –Earl (The Davaoeno)

 

 

…spin to the top… back it up with a slice… lob til it drops… a flat down the line… slam it mid-air… serve with a wham… double it up to save the game!

                        –Eric (The Guy Next Door..Ooops! I mean Cube)

 

Which is worse – the sleep which never ends or that which never comes?

                        –Fritz (One of the Newbies)

 

****Believe that the best will happen everyday…. be aware that even trials are gifts to make us strong enough to face life and trying times…. Always think positive!*****

                        –Ginalyn (The Nicest Mom)

 

Everything happens for a reason…

                        –Imee (One of the Newbies)

 

Pressure is my new bestfriend. Keep calling!

                        –Janice (The Drama Queen)

 

“WATCH OUT”

                        –Jay-R (The Other Sales Coach)

 

 

Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. – Thomas A. Edison

                        –Joanne (The Pretty Burrito)

 

Time flies fast when you don’t worry much about the past.

                        –Jonha R. (The Baby of IT)

 

 

“I know it’s probably impossible that we will ever be together….But that doesn’t mean we can’t have a few laughs together, you know. I’ll take whatever you can give cause I’m just happy to be with you!”

                        –Jorene (The Sexy Antiquena)

 

 

What we are right now is the result of what we did yesterday so better yet think what is best for our tomorrow rather than thinking what is the best today.

                        –Josca (The Incentive Buster)

 

 

destiny is something people invent because some can’t stand the fact that everything that happens is the result of the choice they made…

                        –Katrina (Huh?)

 

 

IT ENDED IN GAME TIU!!! Blue Eagles ’71 campione!

                        –Lovely (One of the Newbies)

 

My drug is ElekTrO.

                        –Cielo (The Handsome She-Man)

 

 

These messages will now become subliminal but your subconscious mind will be hearing and accepting all of the positive messages. Listen to the tapes as often as you can. The more you listen, the sooner success will come.

                        –Lynn Frances (The Strict QA)

 

 

don’t you have anything to do with your life? or you’re just happy making other’s life miserable?coz you’re in that position and have the decision? well let me tell you something! people doing those things are just insecure and coward, they hide through the power and position they have…but if you put them in a fair battle they are for sure a loser! and by the way that’s the devil’s way!

                        –Cathy (The Gorgeous Mom)

 

Potentially self-destructive.

                        –Shey (The Friendly Deep Girl)

 

“Grief can take care of itself, but to get the full value of a joy you must have somebody to divide it with.”

                        –Luz (The silent One)

 

Don’t Quit.

                        –Zsa Zsa (The Rookie Girl)

 

“you can always trust a dishonest man 2 b dishonest; its the honest man you should not trust coz ul never know when he’s gonna b dishonest.” -Capt. Jack Sparrow

                        –Marigold (The Cute Girl)

 

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                        –Honesty (The Honest Girl)

 

I am bigger than anything that can happen to me. All these things, sorrow, misfortune, and suffering, are outside my door. I am in the house and I have a key. -Charles Fletcher Lummis

                        –Mary Irene (The Number 1 Rookie!)

 

I’m not that innocent. I’m just the eternal optimist. I’m forever yours, faithfully. http://www.maryjanecabrera.wordpress.com

                        –Mary Jane (Me!)

 

aLL dreSsed up aNd nowHeRe to gO…

                        –Mecian (The Pretty Girl)

 

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                        –Michelle (The Happy Go Lucky Rocker Girl)

 

31Then said Jesus to those Jews which believed on him, If ye continue in my word, then are ye my disciples indeed; 32And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. 33They answered him, We be Abraham’s seed, and were never in bondage to any man: how sayest thou, Ye shall be made free? 34Jesus answered them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Whosoever committeth sin is the servant of sin. 35And the servant abideth not in the house for ever: but the Son abideth ever. 36If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed. John 8:31-36

                        –Nick (The Sales Coach)

 

If only God can slap your face because you lied…

                        –Orange (The Silent But Deadly He-Woman)

 

“…can you picture what could be so limitless and free?….”

                        –Richard Rull (The Long-Haired Rakista)

 

 

red pill or blue pill???? Take the blue pill and see how deep the rabbit hole goes…..

                        –Richard Villaruel (The AMboy)

 

 

ooh kahayag sa imong panagway,nga na ulipon sa gugmang gi atay..inday paminawa kabus kung gugma,nga kanimo akong i gasa dili ko man ma hatag ang tanang bahandi ning kalibutan apan inday dungga intawn ang alaot nga na ulipon sa gugmang gi atay..(ambassadors)

                        –Roger (The Cebuano Rakista)

 

My choice is what i choose to do, if I’m causing no harm, it shouldn’t bother you. Your choice is what you choose to be, and if you’re causing no harm, then you’re alright with me.

                        –Roland (The Silent Type Guy)

 

If you love me just let me know, if not; just gently let me go…lango2 lng..heHe

                        –Romerico (One of the Newbies)

 

“Everyone is unique, just like everyone else.”

                        –Theda (The Pretty Sexy Mama)

 

 

A person isn’t born with the intelligence to be with someone special, you learn it, and you fail in the path of life, but you don’t have to give up the chance to love.

                        –Vincent (The Jake Cuenca of IT)

 

It’s impossible to surpass those years that you’ve been together, those happy and sad memories that made both of you stronger. But that won’t stop me from loving you. That won’t stop me from believing that there are still chances. I can take the pain but what I can’t bear is you leaving me in between roads with no directions to go to.

                        –Raucel (The Hopeless Romantic)

Amy and MJ are friends again!

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Posted on 4th October 2008 by Mary Jane in Events |Fixations |Friends |Friendship |Iloilo |Life |Love |My Job |Random |Telemarketer |Thoughts |Writing

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      This morning we attended a First Friday Mass at Callbox. I forgot the name of the priest but I didn’t forget his homily. I went with Amy and Monica. Not everyone—actually—nobody else knows that Amy and I had a “cool off” phase in our friendship except Jeffrey and Monica. I really don’t remember the reason why we drifted apart for almost 6 months (it started the week after we came back from Baras, Guimaras) but we just stopped hanging out together. Before that happened, we were always seen together during lunch and break time. If Amy eats lunch, I eat lunch too. If I go to sleep, Amy goes to sleep too. And often we just sit at the couch at the 3rd floor and just talk about random things. And oftentimes we laugh and share secrets and personal stuffs happening at home and in our lives.

 

      Then came that fateful day when we just stopped talking to each other.  It was as simple as that. And I told Nong Jeffrey and Monica about what’s happening. And I also learned that Amy was talking to the two of them as well. So nobody else knew what was happening except the four of us. If our co-workers noticed, they didn’t ask. They were kind enough to leave us alone. What makes me happy with that kind of situation was that even if Amy and I were “not friends” we weren’t spreading rumors or bad things about each other. We weren’t gossiping about each other. And the secrets we shared were still secrets.

 

      I’m telling you this because it relates to the priest’s homily. His topic was about love. Love for your special someone, love for your family and the love for your friends. That for love to last, you only not have to FEEL the love or THINK the love but also importantly to BE WILLING to love.  Amy and I looked at each other on this part of the homily and we just giggled. J By the way we’re friends now. We talked to each other Friday of last week. To make the story short, we just hugged each other on Saturday morning. We missed each other. And we weren’t selfish to say that. I actually shed some tears. Hehehe. But that simply means that I love my friend and I value her. We’re hanging out together now. There’s no tension between us and everything is back to normal. It’s as if nothing happened. Nong Jeffrey and Monica are happy for the both of us. Amy is such a great friend and I would hate to lose her. I hope she reads this so she’ll know how much I value her friendship and her loyalty.

 

      Ayms! Friends forever ta ya ha

 

 

The Sleepy Telemarketer

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Posted on 19th August 2008 by Mary Jane in Fixations |My Job |Random |Telemarketer

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Don’t get me wrong, I love my job. But sometimes it just gets so redundant that I can’t help but think of resigning and just get away from it all. My friends and loved ones say that it happens to everyone everywhere. The burn out. But still, life still has to go on. What would I do anyway if I stop working right? And its better to have a job than have no job at all! I don’t want to be like other people who just stays at home and have their parents take care of them and give them all of their needs. Thats just not my thing. I want to work. I want this job. I love my job! Its really great (and it pays) to be optimistic! ;)

This is how I entertain myself while I’m at work-i paint my nails…haha! :)

And would you look at that? Its pink! ;)

And my ring? Its black! What a mood I’m in. (sigh)